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Leadership topic - The Avett Brothers

Yes – The Avett Brothers really are brothers: Scott and Seth Avett, raised in Concord, North Carolina, joined by longtime bandmates they treat as family. That bond shapes the two themes their series explores – the leadership practice of giving Thanks and what it means to keep a Promise to the people you lead.
The Avett Brothers – are. Unlike say the Thompson Twins, or Pink Floyd (…which one is Pink?), they are ACTUALLY brothers. Raised in Concord, North Carolina, they had no intention of playing what most people call Bluegrass – Hillbilly Jazz.
They both had the typical High School rock bands that went no-where-ish… and after both failed, they left to start noodling around together, and realized together they had something. It was not unexpected: their Grandmother and Father were both musical. After working for a few years, they had enough of a following to record an album of their own – on their own nickel.
So they have been an 18-year “overnight success”. There is an amazing documentary about the Avetts that I would offer as alternative programming. While May it Last will spoil some stories coming up, you get the sense that the band really is a “family”. It permeates all of their music – the sense that this journey is better because they are all together. And they don’t paste over the bad patches – they are in there. Divorces, disabilities – you know – real-life… live, unplugged, and much of it like these years, unplanned…They are the perfect soundtrack for our consideration of Thanks and also Promise.
Can Thanks manage?
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Who are you Thanks partners?
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Thanks-observing
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The wonder of Thanks…
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executing Thanks…
After playing for a few years, particularly around Church, people got to know a bit about what we...
renewing your Thanks…
We spent about as much time at Church as we did at home during this season. Some of it was...
engaging the Promise…
Our group was "Advanced Technologies," doing cutting-edge work with the Promise of Object...
Management Promise…
I really hadn't intended to land in Ops, and frankly thought my "career" was over. Pretty much...
The Promise of partners…
When I started teaching at JMU, I noticed that the people I worked with who had gone there shared...
The Promise of observation…
Like children, you don't really have favorites on a Team ... or shouldn't. It is where the Pooh...
wondering about Promise…
I have written before about the great office I had for this season ... whiteboards on both big...
How does a Promise execute?
We were again in my office, which you are going to think is more a disaster recovery site,...
renewing Promises
The culture of most Ops groups is the same everywhere ... and unique compared to the rest of IT....













